There is an old tried and true saying that goes like this…

“You mess with my family then you mess with me”

This saying is 100% agreeable to my standards, morals, character, and anything that pertains to the very fibers that create my body and soul.  I may go day to day once in a while announcing the annoyance I feel on occasion from any one family member or maybe even two or three at a time.  When it comes to sisterly annoyance being that I have a few of them and they are infamous for group texting… it is rare that only just one of them annoy me at a time.  They usually make their debut in two’s.  

That being said, annoyances are just that, annoyances.  They can pass within minutes, hours, and on rare occasions it may be days before I feel the energy to correspond past the said annoyance.  Family though, family lasts forever and that will never change not even through death.  They are forever in my heart and they too help create and make up the fibers that form who I am today.  It is the people that make up my family that will take me to the end of the earth and back…so when you read this please note that I will do everything in my power to stop your silly attempts at destroying one of my family members.

So lets get started shall we….

It was an unfortunate occasion when I learned one of my sisters had found herself in an unfortunate situation that involved a pathetic excuse for a man.  Leaving all names aside we will just refer to him as Mr Pathetic from here on out.  Now with a little background on my sister and I, we have very…very separate tastes in men and we view things differently at times.  OK a lot of the time but that is what makes us both special and unique in our own little ways.  Come to think of it all of my sisters are very much different in regards to men and views.  I like this about us and the perspectives we can give each other and advice when needed at times.  So with that background even though we may be different when all is said and done I was blown away to find out the lengths Mr Pathetic will go just to hurt someone who did not care to have a relationship for whatever the reason may be.  That is between them but it becomes my concern when I find out he is intentionally trying to destroy her and bully her through the Internet and hinder her from getting a job and supporting her daughter, my niece.  This is where I become angry.

Be a man Mr Pathetic, when a woman says no, she means no.  Move on and find someone who truly cares for you and loves you for who you are.  I am sure you are a very nice person and there is someone out there for you but it just isn’t her.  Harboring the hurt or whatever it may be that leads you to create fictitious blog pages, email accounts, twitter accounts, and other social media is not good for you and your soul.  And karma, well we shall not even touch that topic and for you I will pray karma too is of the fictitious nature…otherwise I am sorry for your soul and what karma shall bring to it.  If you were so in love with her and cared for her then here is advice:  Let. Her. Go.  

I know all too well that storing up anger & hurt inside only hurts one person in the end.  That person obviously being you.  So help me help you and let it all go and move forward in life by holding yourself and actions to the standards you hold for others.  In other words if what you are doing and/or saying is something you would not want done to yourself hit pause and rethink what your about to do.  Always ask yourself whether this would hurt you.  Now, I know there is not a perfect person in this world and anger and hurt can get the best of us on occasion….but that should be a rare occasion not a sometimes twice a day blog post.

To close this out I feel I need to thank you quite honestly Mr Pathetic for entering her life because when all is said and done you have only made her a stronger person in the end and more cautious as to who she will allow into her life.  So again thank you Mr Pathetic for being, well so pathetic.

Also I would like to strongly point out how grateful I am to WordPress and their team for acting so quickly {I speak of within minutes} in response to my request for them to take action against this erroneous blog account posted in my sisters name.  We know this is only a small battle won but a win none the less.

{People always think that the most painful thing is losing someone you care about in your life. The truth is, the most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of caring about someone too much.}

{loveloudly.}